The
Personal Side of Bias, Prejudice, and Oppression
A memory I have of experiencing oppression, was
growing up having a speech impediment. I was subjected to teasing and
embarrassment in elementary school. There was one boy in particular that was
cruel. This specific oppression diminished equity by isolating me from
peers. I avoided many social
interactions and events because he made me feel “different”. Reflecting on this brings back memories of
embarrassment, anger, sadness. Growing up I was always afraid to speak aloud in
class and be overly social with my peers. Family members thought it was cute
and funny and even mimicked words I said. This hurt my feelings even more. My
parents took me to different speech classes to try and help correct the
problem. “While there is usually little impact on intelligibility, the impact
of a lisp on a child's 'image' can be quite powerful. Of course, some children
grow up in an environment where their lisp goes unnoticed, or where it is not
regarded as cause for concern. Other children gain positive recognition because
they lisp, particularly when the lisp is regarded as sweet, funny, or
endearing. By contrast, others face criticism, ridicule, nagging and teasing”
(Bowen, 2011). In order to turn this incident into an opportunity for greater
equity I had a lot of soul searching and maturing to do. It took a long time
but I was able to overcome the inequity I felt. Now that I am an educator
myself, I understand the impact speech impediments can have on a person’s self-worth.
I am an advocate for students and families facing this and provide as much
support as I can for them.
References
Bowen, C. (2011). Lisping: When /s/ and /z/ are hard
to say. Retrieved from http://www.speech-language-therapy.com/